Hey
I have the same deal here, depends on power level, for up too 500 horse a 8 3/4 will work just fine, a 9 1/4 will also work thing is they never came in Dakota's, find a 8 3/4 rear from a 68-70 B body mopar (Charger,Road Runner, Coronet etc) you will need to move the spring perches, and use your old shock mounts, and move them to the 8 3/4 rear. But easy work if you have a little welder etc. Those rearends will take some abuse, i ran one for a while which I still have setup for a Dakota (maybe I can sell??) i upgraded to a Dana 60 knowing it a matter of time before 3650+lbs and 750+hp breaks a axle ans sends me into the wall at possiable 140+ mph!!!! Check out this link for great mopar info.
http://www.moparts.com/Tech/Archive/axle.html